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Plus, it can be controlled by buttons on the device or an app-connected smartphone so your partner can pleasure you even from afar. Our testers couldn’t believe how powerful this palm-sized vibrator was, even on the lower speed settings. The vibrations were a bit too intense for some, but if you’re in the market for a small but mighty bullet vibrator, this is a hot contender. Made from soft silicone with a squidgy gel tip viberator, all testers said it was comfortable and easy to use and were impressed with the wide range of settings to explore. Bullet and wand vibrators do the same thing — external stimulation on parts of your body, such as the clitoris. While “bullet” often describes small, bullet-shaped vibrators, Amrich uses that label more broadly to categorize vibrators that focus on clitoral stimulation and aren’t specifically designed to be inserted into the body.

Like the Magic Wand, it’s corded, so it can’t die on you mid-solo session. Meanwhile, the aluminum and titanium handle adds some heft, which increases the amount of pressure this vibe can deliver. We still think these toys are worth recommending, even though they didn’t make it into our top picks. (After all, every wand vibe can’t be the best!) Find even more SELF staffer and expert favorites below. Another highly praised rabbit-style vibrator is the We Vibe Nova ($149), which features a flexible arm that moves with you and has 10 vibration settings. This two-in-one vibrator has a far more modern design than the original Rabbit vibrator.

Just be sure that the toy’s buttons are well-labeled and intuitively placed—there’s nothing worse than trying to up the ante right before orgasm, only to turn the entire vibe off accidentally. It can be hard to feel connected sometimes even when you live in the same city, but put a bunch of miles between the two of you and it can feel downright sucky. Sex toys have evolved to be interactive so video chatting and sexting aren’t the only tools to help you keep things steamy when you’re apart. Fans of the Lelo Nea 2 tend to be amazed that such a tiny little vibrator can pack such a strong and versatile punch. “It’s super petite and gives you the option to use solo, or with a partner — truly the best of both worlds,” says Reeves. And despite the intensity of the vibrations, the Nea 2 is quiet , adding to its already impressive discretion factor.

When it comes to discreet vibrators, it also fits the bill with its compact design and sensonic technology, which mimics the act of oral sex with its 12 settings. Unlike a lot of other toys, this one has two independent motors in its respective ends that feature 10 unique speeds and rhythms. The wider end of the toy provides more “focused” tapping sensations, and the more tapered end pleases you with all the ‘good vibes’ you can handle. If you’re looking for discreet male sex toys, this is definitely the best it can get.

Whether you’re in a long-distance relationship, a camgirl, or just a fan of public play, it can be hard to come up with new ways to keep things hot at a distance.

(In addition to, you know, your hand.) It seems like they would the natural addition to your sex life. As most vibrators are app-controlled, it’s easy to give your partner the ability to control them remotely—an excellent way to add new thrills to any long-distance relationship. As Carol Queen, sex educator and staff at Good Vibrations says, panty vibes can also be a smart assistive device for anyone who doesn’t have great hand strength or motor control. Nicely, panty vibrators work as external vibrators sans underwear, too, with various vibration patterns and strengths. The best panty vibrators (and vibrating panties) slide inside underwear or are built-in, making for delicious, hands-free partner play.

This stroker is so high-tech, it makes a standard Fleshlight look like a lubed-up toilet paper roll. The Lovense Max offers not only a pleasurably textured interior, but also vibration that surrounds your dick, and rhythmic contractions that squeeze and massage it. If you prefer gentler, pinpointed stimulation, the Lelo Dot may be the best choice for you. The teardrop-shaped Dot looks a bit odd at first glance, but its accessible design offers focused clitoral stimulation. There’s nothing worse than fumbling around with buttons while you’re trying to get in the zone, either alone or with a partner.

The We-Connect app lets couples control the product even when they’re miles apart, bringing a new charge to long-distance relationships. In fact, while most sex toys are great for solo play, they can also be a fun part of partnered sex if you want them to be. “It’s also a way to signal more of what you like, which is a thrilling way to grow the relationship.” In particular, those who can’t reach orgasm through penetrative sex, or people who simply want to explore new avenues of masturbation.